If you are serious about building a reputation and career as a femdom fetish model online and you are cultivating a dedicated clientele, you will attract people seeking to engage in humiliation play. Many fetish models will be uncomfortable with this activity, but if you are choosing the role of the dominant female, you need to be prepared to meet these needs of your customers.


Erotic humiliation within the context of a fetish webcam model and her client is the consensual use of psychological humiliation in a sexual context, whereby the client gains arousal or erotic excitement from the powerful emotions of being humiliated and demeaned.


The humiliation need not be sexual in itself; as with many other sexual activities it is the feelings derived from it which are sought, regardless of the nature of the actual activity. Non-sexual activities may become sexualised by association with arousal, and also may be associated with exhibitionism in the sense of wanting others to witness (or being aroused by others witnessing) one’s sexual degradation.


As with all sexual activities, some people have sexual fantasies about humiliation, and others actually undertake it as a lifestyle or in a scene. However, the desire to be humiliated may be a motivating cause for confession as the act of confessing would be humiliating. Many people have the worry of being ridiculed for their fetish, and such ridicule from their partners could be psychologically catastrophic. Therefore, many people use online humiliation (where the humiliator and others are involved via the internet using chat, email, websites, etc.) as a compromise between exhibitionism and reality on the one hand, and safety and anonymity on
the other.


Online humiliation techniques that you might employ or be asked to employ include:

1. Reduction to Human animal roleplay or human pet, referring to these individuals as pet, dog, bitch, or making them eat and drink from pet food and water bowls.
2. Verbal belittlement, such as “slave”, “boy”, “pet”.
3. Insults and verbal abuse, such as “fat”, “ugly”, “stupid”, “worthless”.
4. Slighting of body parts or behaviors, such as disparaging or cruel references to, facial appearance, genitalia or genital size,
5. Having to ask permission for everyday activities such as going to the toilet, spending money or eating.
6. Small penis humiliation, where scorn is addressed over the supposed inadequacy of the adult male’s genitals, or his inability to please a lover, and his penis becomes an object of derision.
7. Forced repetition, such as being obliged to repeat back commands to confirm them.
8. Forced flattery, such as agreeing that every decision that the dominant makes is wise, correct, and justifiable, while additionally praising the dominant’s physical and personality traits.
9. Mockery, derision, and ridicule.

Getting comfortable in the role of humiliator may take time, but remember that clients who seek out this service are implicitly looking to form bonds of trust; Building a relationship with a humiliation seeking client can be a long-term arrangement that can be quite lucrative.