If you are serious about building a reputation and career as a femdom fetish model online and you are cultivating a dedicated clientele, you will attract people seeking to engage in humiliation play. Many fetish models will be uncomfortable with this activity, but if you are choosing the role of the dominant female, you need to be prepared to meet these needs of your customers.
Erotic humiliation within the context of a fetish webcam model and her client is the consensual use of psychological humiliation in a sexual context, whereby the client gains arousal or erotic excitement from the powerful emotions of being humiliated and demeaned.
The humiliation need not be sexual in itself; as with many other sexual activities it is the feelings derived from it which are sought, regardless of the nature of the actual activity. Non-sexual activities may become sexualised by association with arousal, and also may be associated with exhibitionism in the sense of wanting others to witness (or being aroused by others witnessing) one’s sexual degradation.
As with all sexual activities, some people have sexual fantasies about humiliation, and others actually undertake it as a lifestyle or in a scene. However, the desire to be humiliated may be a motivating cause for confession as the act of confessing would be humiliating. Many people have the worry of being ridiculed for their fetish, and such ridicule from their partners could be psychologically catastrophic. Therefore, many people use online humiliation (where the humiliator and others are involved via the internet using chat, email, websites, etc.) as a compromise between exhibitionism and reality on the one hand, and safety and anonymity on
Online humiliation techniques that you might employ or be asked to employ include:
- Reduction to Human animal roleplay or human pet, referring to these individuals as pet, dog, bitch, or making them eat and drink from pet food and water bowls.
- Verbal belittlement, such as “slave”, “boy”, “pet”.
- Insults and verbal abuse, such as “fat”, “ugly”, “stupid”, “worthless”.
- Slighting of body parts or behaviors, such as disparaging or cruel references to, facial appearance, genitalia or genital size,
- Having to ask permission for everyday activities such as going to the toilet, spending money or eating.
- Small penis humiliation, where scorn is addressed over the supposed inadequacy of the adult male’s genitals, or his inability to please a lover, and his penis becomes an object of derision.
- Forced repetition, such as being obliged to repeat back commands to confirm them.
- Forced flattery, such as agreeing that every decision that the dominant makes is wise, correct, and justifiable, while additionally praising the dominant’s physical and personality traits.
- Mockery, derision, and ridicule.
Getting comfortable in the role of humiliator may take time, but remember that clients who seek out this service are implicitly looking to form bonds of trust; Building a relationship with a humiliation seeking client can be a long-term arrangement that can be quite lucrative.
As I have written in earlier posts, once you start building up a clientele devoted to your foot fetish modeling, you will start getting specific requests and you might even seeing your clientele segmenting into high heel devotees vs. bare foot fanatics. Once you start making connections with your clientele, they will surely want to see you modeling nylons, pantyhose and socks.
As with bare foot modeling and high heel modeling, modeling your feet in pantyhose, nylons and socks requires learning a few basic moves and building confidence to branch out from there.
But first, let’s talk a little about hosiery style.
Of course you have the classic stockings, perfect of you want to create a harder, sexier look for yourself (pair black stockings with patent leather heels) or if you want to go retro, add garters. Use black stockings to go for Bettie Page, or use nude stockings and brightly colored shoes and try to go for a naughty June Cleaver look. Try out a punk look with fishnets and boots, or reimagine Madonna circa 1984 with bright green fishnets and white granny boots. Stockings are an utter blast!
Pantyhose modeling is a little different. Be prepared for your clients to ask to see your crotch. It is one of the biggest allure’s of the pantyhose fetish, perhaps rooted in some forgotten voyeuristic memory. When you are modeling pantyhose, be prepared to dress in a sophisticated style…a skirt and blouse, a suit. Have a role in mind…the sexy boss, the flirtatious secretary, the amorous librarian…let your imagination run wild!
Sock fetish modeling is on the opposite end of the spectrum. It definitely involves a younger vibe…think teenagers at a slumber party. Try fresh white or pink athletic socks right out of the package, or fun multi-coloured knee-highs. Your clients will certainly provide you with feedback and let you know their preferences!
So now that you have your hosiery in place, what are your clients going to want to see? The underlying attraction in pantyhose and nylons is the soft smooth feeling…the frictionless glide. Squeeze your knees together and rub your calves together…lean back and make a little bicycle kick with your feet. Rubbing your legs together will be what your clients want to see. Point your toes, wrinkle your sole, arch your sole, in nylons, you will feel so sexy!
Modeling in nylons and pantyhose is a natural enhancement to modeling in high heels, you will feel right at home combining the two. Modeling in socks however, should be treated like you are modeling in bare feet…very playful, very young.
Of course, when the right client is willing to pay, the rules can go out the window!
Foot Domination is a good way to enter into Femdom fetish modeling. You can exercise your dominant persona, and if you are just starting out in this pursuit, it gives you a chance to work on a specific area of domination to build your confidence and win a loyal client base.
In online fetish erotica and pornography, foot domination generally refers to a dominant female figure (the “FemDom” or “Domme”) commanding obedience and subservience from a male or female submissive partner (the “sub”) in the form of foot worshipping, groveling, shoe and high heel kissing or licking; stepping or trampling on the sub’s body is also highly desired imagery. It is generally accompanied by derisive and demeaning language, strong verbal commands, scolding and specific instruction. To make foot domination work as a fetish webcam model working solo, you are going to have to focus on the verbal and psychological component.
So let’s assume you are in your webcam studio space, wherever you might have that set up. It’s important to be prepared for most foot domination femdom fetish scenarios: you don’t have to be clad head-to-toe in a latex catsuit and eight inch stiletto boots, but dress the part. If you feel more confident and in charge wearing high heels, by all means, wear a pair that shows attitude. If your client wants something else, you let him know that this is what you feel like wearing today, and if he wants you to change into something else, he will have to earn it.
Femdom foot domination fetish modeling will also require a much more verbal component. Don’t type your commands to your customers; speak them directly to the webcam. Issue commands and demand appropriate responses. “Tell me how much you would love to kiss my feet.” Indulge your customers’ fantasy by scolding them. “Your poor attitude and dirty mind deserves punishment. If you were here I would step on your face with my feet and make you lick the sole of my shoe.”
Online foot domination fetish modeling will require imagination. If you are just new to femdom role-playing, you will be challenged by becoming credibly dominant and convincing to your clientele; you will be doing solo and exclusively verbally and psychologically a fetish that is most commonly depicted in photos and videos by two participants in clearly defined domme and sub roles. It takes practice, but it can be done and the rewards for this type of fetish modeling can be lucrative.
If you have been considering taking a job as a Fetish model for a webcam site, but you are unsure of your limits, you might be interested in starting as a foot fetish model. Many successful fetish models have gotten their start in foot fetish, and it’s an easy way for you to start making extra money on the side in your spare time, or even turn it into a full time job.
As is the case with every fetish, there is always someone turned on by any one aspect of the female foot. I’ll get more specific in future posts, but you don’t need a perfect foot, or a perfect size or shape to start. I guarantee that there is a man (or lots of men!) that will think your feet are perfect exactly the way they are.
Fetish modeling is about confidence, attitude, and an ability to understand your client. The most successful fetish models invest time in connecting with their best customers, asking questions, responding to needs, and anticipating desires. I hope I can give you practical information about succeeding as a foot fetish model as well as imparting strategies on building profitable relationships with your customers that will serve you if you are working as a fetish webcam model or in any other similar career.