Harder Foot Fetishes: Bondage and Bastinado


So by now you have probably had a customer or two asking (or begging) for bondage or other kinky stuff like foot spanking, known in some circles as bastinado or falaka. You may or may not know anything about bondage , but the foot bondage fetish modeling fanbase is out there and significant, so if you are game to try it. Go into it with your eyes open.

Foot bondage can be a challenge for a solo fetish model. Unless you are experienced at ropework, tying your own feet could be a clumsy, awkward free-for-all, not the sexy fetish modeling cam show your customers are paying for.

So try positions with a low degree of difficulty and a high degree of sex appeal. Practice your rope work on a single foot. Tie a small diameter rope or cord around your big toe and wind the rope across the arch of your foot and loop around the ankle, back over the sole of your foot and between the pinkie and fourth toe. Keep winding the cord, keep your pace slow and sexy and add some sensual moaning, and you’re on your way.

If ropes prove too difficult to handle, try a belt. Use a tough looking men’s belt, lie on your back with both feet in the air and belt both feet around the arches and loop around the ankles. Vamp it up and ask your clients what they want to see next.
Another sensual foot bondage fetish your clients will want to see is foot spanking, or bastinado. It has historically been a punishment for petty crime in the Eastern world, but it has a sexually charged undercurrent that your clients will find incredibly erotic.

Again, this is an activity that would be better if you have a partner, but if you are solo you can still make it work. Start by finding something you can tolerate being spanked lightly with, like a 12 inch ruler (metal, wood or plastic are all good choices) or a wooden spoon.

Kneel on a sofa or a bed with your back to the camera. Grasp the spanking object in your hand and turn around until you can spank the soles of your feet, and just go ahead and give yourself a slap. Chances are, you won’t be able to hurt yourself, so concentrate about making the best effect for your foot fetish clientele. Try and get a loud smack sound from the spoon or ruler for the best effect for your audience.

For both of these techniques, expect to put in some off-camera practice work to perfect a technique and increase your skill level. If you have a friend that’s willing to help you out, have them practice tying up your feet and spanking you. If you are choosing to explore this area of foot fetish modeling, the time you put in will be rewarded with lots of happy, paying clients.

Foot Fetish Modeling Detail Work – pedicure and nail polish

foot fetish pedicureOne of the demands of foot fetish modeling is the attention to detail. Your feet are now your moneymakers and you will probably find yourself spending more time than you used to washing, exfoliating, moisturizing and painting your toenails. But your clients are such big fans of your feet, they would probably love to share this time with you!

Pedicure fetish is a sweet niche to cultivate in terms of finding a foot fetish modeling clientele. It’s maintenance you would be doing anyway, but now you can charge admission for the privilege of watching.

The secret to creating a clientele loyal and willing to pay to be a part of your pedicure regime is that you are sharing an intimate moment with them. It doesn’t have to be lurid or sexual, it’s time your clients (your fans!) can spend with you and it doesn’t feel like a performance.

So what’s your pedicure routine? How does that play for the camera? Make sure the camera is focused on your feet (you can even put the cam in your lap). Do you moisturize your feet? Give your feet a long, comforting rubdown. Do you use toe spreaders? Take your time making sure they fit just right. Rub your polish off one toe at a time and let the camera get a good look at your naked toenails.

Make sure you are verbalizing the entire time, be specific about what brands of products you use, where you shop. Take your time. Do a good job. If you work with a partner, have them do your nails, or vice versa. Pedicure fetish modeling is all about creating a personal moment between you and your client.

Femdom Fetish Modeling & Humiliation Training

If you are serious about building a reputation and career as a femdom fetish model online and you are cultivating a dedicated clientele, you will attract people seeking to engage in humiliation play. Many fetish models will be uncomfortable with this activity, but if you are choosing the role of the dominant female, you need to be prepared to meet these needs of your customers.

femdom humiliation fetishErotic humiliation within the context of a fetish webcam model and her client is the consensual use of psychological humiliation in a sexual context, whereby the client gains arousal or erotic excitement from the powerful emotions of being humiliated and demeaned.

The humiliation need not be sexual in itself; as with many other sexual activities it is the feelings derived from it which are sought, regardless of the nature of the actual activity. Non-sexual activities may become sexualised by association with arousal, and also may be associated with exhibitionism in the sense of wanting others to witness (or being aroused by others witnessing) one’s sexual degradation.

As with all sexual activities, some people have sexual fantasies about humiliation, and others actually undertake it as a lifestyle or in a scene. However, the desire to be humiliated may be a motivating cause for confession as the act of confessing would be humiliating. Many people have the worry of being ridiculed for their fetish, and such ridicule from their partners could be psychologically catastrophic. Therefore, many people use online humiliation (where the humiliator and others are involved via the internet using chat, email, websites, etc.) as a compromise between exhibitionism and reality on the one hand, and safety and anonymity on
the other.

Online humiliation techniques that you might employ or be asked to employ include:

  1. Reduction to Human animal roleplay or human pet, referring to these individuals as pet, dog, bitch, or making them eat and drink from pet food and water bowls.
  2. Verbal belittlement, such as “slave”, “boy”, “pet”.
  3. Insults and verbal abuse, such as “fat”, “ugly”, “stupid”, “worthless”.
  4. Slighting of body parts or behaviors, such as disparaging or cruel references to, facial appearance, genitalia or genital size,
  5. Having to ask permission for everyday activities such as going to the toilet, spending money or eating.
  6. Small penis humiliation, where scorn is addressed over the supposed inadequacy of the adult male’s genitals, or his inability to please a lover, and his penis becomes an object of derision.
  7. Forced repetition, such as being obliged to repeat back commands to confirm them.
  8. Forced flattery, such as agreeing that every decision that the dominant makes is wise, correct, and justifiable, while additionally praising the dominant’s physical and personality traits.
  9. Mockery, derision, and ridicule.

Getting comfortable in the role of humiliator may take time, but remember that clients who seek out this service are implicitly looking to form bonds of trust; Building a relationship with a humiliation seeking client can be a long-term arrangement that can be quite lucrative.

Get Sexy, Get Playful! Nylons, Pantyhose and Socks!

As I have written in earlier posts, once you start building up a clientele devoted to your foot fetish modeling, you will start getting specific requests and you might even seeing your clientele segmenting into high heel devotees vs. bare foot fanatics. Once you start making connections with your clientele, they will surely want to see you modeling nylons, pantyhose and socks.

pantyhose fetish modelingAs with bare foot modeling and high heel modeling, modeling your feet in pantyhose, nylons and socks requires learning a few basic moves and building confidence to branch out from there.

But first, let’s talk a little about hosiery style.

Of course you have the classic stockings, perfect of you want to create a harder, sexier look for yourself (pair black stockings with patent leather heels) or if you want to go retro, add garters. Use black stockings to go for Bettie Page, or use nude stockings and brightly colored shoes and try to go for a naughty June Cleaver look. Try out a punk look with fishnets and boots, or reimagine Madonna circa 1984 with bright green fishnets and white granny boots. Stockings are an utter blast!

Pantyhose modeling is a little different. Be prepared for your clients to ask to see your crotch. It is one of the biggest allure’s of the pantyhose fetish, perhaps rooted in some forgotten voyeuristic memory. When you are modeling pantyhose, be prepared to dress in a sophisticated style…a skirt and blouse, a suit. Have a role in mind…the sexy boss, the flirtatious secretary, the amorous librarian…let your imagination run wild!

Sock fetish modeling is on the opposite end of the spectrum. It definitely involves a younger vibe…think teenagers at a slumber party. Try fresh white or pink athletic socks right out of the package, or fun multi-coloured knee-highs. Your clients will certainly provide you with feedback and let you know their preferences!

So now that you have your hosiery in place, what are your clients going to want to see? The underlying attraction in pantyhose and nylons is the soft smooth feeling…the frictionless glide. Squeeze your knees together and rub your calves together…lean back and make a little bicycle kick with your feet. Rubbing your legs together will be what your clients want to see. Point your toes, wrinkle your sole, arch your sole, in nylons, you will feel so sexy!

Modeling in nylons and pantyhose is a natural enhancement to modeling in high heels, you will feel right at home combining the two. Modeling in socks however, should be treated like you are modeling in bare feet…very playful, very young.

Of course, when the right client is willing to pay, the rules can go out the window!

Foot Domination Fetish Modeling – An Overview

foot dominationFoot Domination is a good way to enter into Femdom fetish modeling. You can exercise your dominant persona, and if you are just starting out in this pursuit, it gives you a chance to work on a specific area of domination to build your confidence and win a loyal client base.

In online fetish erotica and pornography, foot domination generally refers to a dominant female figure (the “FemDom” or “Domme”) commanding obedience and subservience from a male or female submissive partner (the “sub”) in the form of foot worshipping, groveling, shoe and high heel kissing or licking; stepping or trampling on the sub’s body is also highly desired imagery. It is generally accompanied by derisive and demeaning language, strong verbal commands, scolding and specific instruction. To make foot domination work as a fetish webcam model working solo, you are going to have to focus on the verbal and psychological component.

So let’s assume you are in your webcam studio space, wherever you might have that set up. It’s important to be prepared for most foot domination femdom fetish scenarios: you don’t have to be clad head-to-toe in a latex catsuit and eight inch stiletto boots, but dress the part. If you feel more confident and in charge wearing high heels, by all means, wear a pair that shows attitude. If your client wants something else, you let him know that this is what you feel like wearing today, and if he wants you to change into something else, he will have to earn it.

Femdom foot domination fetish modeling will also require a much more verbal component. Don’t type your commands to your customers; speak them directly to the webcam. Issue commands and demand appropriate responses. “Tell me how much you would love to kiss my feet.” Indulge your customers’ fantasy by scolding them. “Your poor attitude and dirty mind deserves punishment. If you were here I would step on your face with my feet and make you lick the sole of my shoe.”

Online foot domination fetish modeling will require imagination. If you are just new to femdom role-playing, you will be challenged by becoming credibly dominant and convincing to your clientele; you will be doing solo and exclusively verbally and psychologically a fetish that is most commonly depicted in photos and videos by two participants in clearly defined domme and sub roles. It takes practice, but it can be done and the rewards for this type of fetish modeling can be lucrative.

Femdom Fetish Modeling – an Overview

When I talk to my friends who are pursuing careers as fetish models, a topic that keeps recurring is the advantages and pitfalls of femdom fetish modeling. “Femdom” is, as you may have guessed, common online slang for “Female Domination” and it can involve anything and everything from humiliation to forced feminization and bondage.

But one of the most common missteps for fetish models starting to pursue “Femdom” in webcam modeling is that it becomes an excuse to play dressup, rather than a genuine embrace of the fetish. Most of us have seen over-the-top dominatrix Halloween costumes or busty babes in leather corsets lashing huddled slaves with a bullwhip in movies or in pornography, and trying to emulate that visual effect without understanding the psychology or the personality behind femdom fetish will lead to frustration and ultimately unsatisfied clients.

A customer seeking to be dominated by a femdom fetish model will be able to tell if you are simply play-acting in a costume or if you are genuinely a girl with the right attitude. There will be a lot more information and practical advice in future posts on this subject, but the most important thing to take away from this if you are considering femdom fetish modeling is that successful femdom fetish models thrive because of what’s in their head, not just the clothes on their body.

So setting aside any thought of whipping a client’s backside or stepping on their unmentionables with your stiletto heel, let’s simply ask: Am I dominant? Can I be dominant?

Are you the girl who sets the agenda for your group of friends? Does your boyfriend go out of his way to please you? Do you easily take “no” for an answer? Or are you the one trying to please your friends, your parents, and your boyfriend? Do you find it hard to speak up when someone tells you something you don’t want to hear?

Starting to practice dominant behavior is as easy as setting standards when you are in a webcam modeling session. It doesn’t have to be anything like “Address me only as Empress Sexy Goddess my worthless slaves” but you can start be insisting that all requests must be accompanied by “please” or they will be ignored. You could insist that clients in your webcam chat area use proper spelling or proper sentence structure for reward or face punishment or expulsion. Think of it as baby steps as you are establishing your femdom persona in your pursuit of your fetish modeling career.

Are you considering Foot Fetish Modeling?

If you have been considering taking a job as a Fetish model for a webcam site, but you are unsure of your limits, you might be interested in starting as a foot fetish model.  Many successful fetish models have gotten their start in foot fetish, and it’s an easy way for you to start making extra money on the side in your spare time, or even turn it into a full time job.


As is the case with every fetish, there is always someone turned on by any one aspect of the female foot. I’ll get more specific in future posts, but you don’t need a perfect foot, or a perfect size or shape to start. I guarantee that there is a man (or lots of men!) that will think your feet are perfect exactly the way they are.


Fetish modeling is about confidence, attitude, and an ability to understand your client. The most successful fetish models invest time in connecting with their best customers, asking questions, responding to needs, and anticipating desires.  I hope I can give you practical information about succeeding as a foot fetish model as well as imparting strategies on building profitable relationships with your customers that will serve you  if you are working as a fetish webcam model or in any other similar career.