Financial Domination: an Overview and Introduction


Financial Domination is when slaves and submissive men pay or “tribute” money to a Dominant Female. A term originally coined by Mistress Amelia Marx that became popular through research and use of the term in media and on the internet in the early 90′s. This fetish is brought on by the need to be controlled in any and every way possible. Miss Marx found this to be a natural extension for any Professional Dominatrix who is already being paid for Fetish services, and began to exploit it with clients who shared her fetish.

Many financial slaves tribute on a weekly or daily basis, as well as buy their Mistresses gifts whenever told to or whenever they feel it necessary. Often a financial slave will take it upon himself to adopt a Mistress’ bill that he will pay faithfully every month for Her.

Today, Marx’s work has spawned an entire cult fetish, and type of Domination. Terms like moneypig, wallet rape, money slavery, and more all came from her early exploitation of this very real fetish with her clients.

Financial Domination, Money Slavery, and Cash Fetish all deserve closer examination, and this article will be the first in a series covering many aspects of the fetish.


Female Domination Modeling and Partner Play

At some point in your career as a femdom fetish model, you may perform with a partner, either male or female, in which you are the dominant party and they are submissive to your will. Instead of engaging with your clients online and issuing instructions, you will be transferring that relationship to the partner performing with you.

You can keep it simple and “pg-13” by making your submissive partner brush your hair, rub your shoulders or massage your feet. Perhaps your online clientele would like to see your partner give you a pedicure or otherwise worship your feet.

From there, you should be feeling very comfortable with your partner, and perhaps you can start engaging in more erotic, sexually charged play for the pleasure of your clientele. Remain clothed, but order your submissive partner to strip – forced stripping or CFNM (Clothed Female, Nude Male) is very sexually charged and should really get a positive response from your clientele.

You could take it a step further and introduced sissification and forced feminization to the dom play session. Once your male sub is naked, offer him very feminine clothing to wear instead. Think lingerie, bra and panties, or even pantyhose. Offer him a wig to wear and instruct him to put on some makeup to “look pretty.” How is your audience reacting? Take your cues from them, but remember to ultimately respect your partner and don’t violate his trust.

Other games you can play with your submissive partner can include bisex play – ask him to fellate a dildo, instruct him on proper technique and correct him when you feel he is doing it wrong. You could show him imagery of gay erotica and ask him to pleasure himself while viewing it. Again, take your cues from your online clientele, but be mindful of crossing boundaries or violating the submissive’s trust.

Stay clam, remain in control and be sexy, your partner and your clientele will be very appreciative.

Exploring Foot Tickle Fetish

One aspect of foot fetish modeling that is often overlooked is the age old game of foot tickling. The ability to present a fun, laughter filled foot tickling webcam show will be greatly appealing to a large audience of tickle fetish enthusiasts.

That’s easy you are saying to yourself, anyone can do that! While it’s true, undoubtedly you have been tickled by a boyfriend or someone else close to you, to do it for an audience on a webcam has a few unique considerations.

First, there’s an old adage: “You can’t tickle yourself” and for most people that’s true. Go ahead and try to tickle the sole of your foot or the sensitive patch inside your wrist. You probably didn’t even get a chuckle did you?

So unless you are performing with a partner, you are going to have to engage in a bit of play acting, even if it is just to get the ball rolling. When you start your foot tickling fetish show on your webcam, you can start by talking about your love of getting your feet tickled, how you find it erotic and so pleasurable. Think of a really genuinely funny moment in your life to put a smile on your face and start you laughing.

This is an excellent opportunity to use some props to help you out: you can buy an oversized feather or plume at a craft store and use it to tickle the soles of your feet, or you can try using a soft brush on the soles of your feet. Tickle them lightly and smile, thinking of your happy memory and let a big smile show on your lips.

Your customers will chime in on chat, telling you how sexy you look and cracking jokes. Let them. Let your foot tickling fetish sessions be free spirited and unstructured. If you have to fake a little laughter to get the ball rolling, so be it. This can be a relaxing session if you rely on your members to entertain you.

Another method you might try is to tickle your feet with a vibrator. You will surely be creating a much more sexually charged session with the vibrator present, but if that’s what you are going for, a vibrator set on High will definitely get you giggling when you trace it on the soles of your feet. A girlfriend of mine told me once that she and her boyfriend used an electric toothbrush with soft bristles to similar effect. She said she never laughed so hard in her life!

Be creative, and if you think of the audience you have on the webcam! You are surely not alone when you are playing with foot tickling fetish on your webcam.

Femdom Bondage and Torment, overcoming performing alone

One of the biggest hurdles to overcome when performing as a femdom fetish model is that much of what makes the fetish so sexy and appealing is that it involves a power exchange between two people: the woman dominates, the man submits. The imagery most associated with female domination involves bondage and discipline, elements that are challenging to conjure when you are working remotely from your clients and interacting over webcam.

So if you have a client who is eager to explore bondage, discipline or another masochistic fetishes, you have to be able to dominate verbally. Much like the earlier post on femdom humiliation, specific instructions are required. If your client wants to be tied up, you tell him how you want him to do it. If he does it correctly, reward him, if not, chastise him or request he punish himself. This sort of femdom bondage roleplay benefits greatly from two way cameras. Get you client to enable his webcam so you can watch him.

Activities that you can share in this matter could include CBT play (Cock and Ball Torture), self bondage, forced feminization (instruct your client to wear women’s clothes and makeup) and forced stripping.

Another alternative you can try to enhance CBT fetish play is to bring a realistic looking dildo into the session. Now that you have a substitute for your client’s own genitalia (and make sure you note how much bigger it is that your client’s own genitals), you can demonstrate how you would tie up his penis, or as the session escalates in intensity, you can try using scissors on the phallus, or even a lit cigarette!

These are just a few ideas on how you can bridge the virtual gap that divides you and your fetish modeling client. If you can overcome the difficulty of being required to physically dominate another person while you are alone, you will be very successful It takes time, practice and patience, but if you can verbalize and get obedience and submission from your clients, you will be well rewarded.

If you have trouble overcoming that lack of physical proximity, use a stand in, like a dildo, or a photograph, or even a doll. It’s about creating a fantasy experience that allows the client to feel submissive and grateful.

Advanced Foot Fetish Modeling: Wet and Messy

Now don’t run off screaming because of the title of this post…wet and messy is a hot fetish that dedicated foot fetish models undoubtedly gets lots of requests for. There’s something very primal about mushing your feet around in something wet and slimy that appeals to a very deep part of the human brain, and even if you aren’t turned on by it, at least you can have fun with it while your clients who do love it really get turned on.

wet and messy foot fetish modelingSo what are the elements of Wet and Messy Fetish, otherwise known as wamplay or sploshing, specifically as it pertains to feet? Wamplay involves smearing or dipping your feet in substances like whipped cream, mud, shaving foam, custard, ice cream, pudding, chocolate sauce, peanut butter, etc and showing off the resulting mess to your clients on your webcam.

Logistically, the more advance planning you can do, the better. Instead of performing in your bedroom or a carpeted area, you might want to consider performing somewhere like the kitchen or bathroom; an area with a tiled floor and easily wiped surfaces will be preferable when you are filming your wet and messy foot fetish scenes. Failing that, at least lay out some plastic sheeting over anything hard to clean or anything you find particularly valuable.

Next, it probably goes without saying that you should keep your brand new $500 cocktail dress in the closet while you are doing wet and messy foot fetish scenes. You could try wearing a bathing suit, or at least old clothes you don’t mind getting a bit stained up. Finally, keep a basin of water and a towel at the ready just off camera for clean up.

Your clients looking for wamplay and sploshing will have specific requests, but the key is to go slow and tease; don’t give away the whole show until you have client sin the private chat area and even then, make sure you draw out the tease.

To ensure client satisfaction, make sure you let your clients know in advance you will be doing a wet and messy show, and if they have specific requests to let you know. This will let you be prepared, and if you get any unduly unusual or expensive requests (like premium champagne or caviar) you can ask your dedicated customers to cover expenses for these items up front so you won’t be out of pocket and holding the bill for an expensive no-show.

Whatever happens out there on cam, just keep a smile on your face and play directly to the needs of your clients. When you satisfy their desires, you will be rewarded handsomely.

Femdom Fetish Modeling & Humiliation Training

If you are serious about building a reputation and career as a femdom fetish model online and you are cultivating a dedicated clientele, you will attract people seeking to engage in humiliation play. Many fetish models will be uncomfortable with this activity, but if you are choosing the role of the dominant female, you need to be prepared to meet these needs of your customers.

femdom humiliation fetishErotic humiliation within the context of a fetish webcam model and her client is the consensual use of psychological humiliation in a sexual context, whereby the client gains arousal or erotic excitement from the powerful emotions of being humiliated and demeaned.

The humiliation need not be sexual in itself; as with many other sexual activities it is the feelings derived from it which are sought, regardless of the nature of the actual activity. Non-sexual activities may become sexualised by association with arousal, and also may be associated with exhibitionism in the sense of wanting others to witness (or being aroused by others witnessing) one’s sexual degradation.

As with all sexual activities, some people have sexual fantasies about humiliation, and others actually undertake it as a lifestyle or in a scene. However, the desire to be humiliated may be a motivating cause for confession as the act of confessing would be humiliating. Many people have the worry of being ridiculed for their fetish, and such ridicule from their partners could be psychologically catastrophic. Therefore, many people use online humiliation (where the humiliator and others are involved via the internet using chat, email, websites, etc.) as a compromise between exhibitionism and reality on the one hand, and safety and anonymity on
the other.

Online humiliation techniques that you might employ or be asked to employ include:

  1. Reduction to Human animal roleplay or human pet, referring to these individuals as pet, dog, bitch, or making them eat and drink from pet food and water bowls.
  2. Verbal belittlement, such as “slave”, “boy”, “pet”.
  3. Insults and verbal abuse, such as “fat”, “ugly”, “stupid”, “worthless”.
  4. Slighting of body parts or behaviors, such as disparaging or cruel references to, facial appearance, genitalia or genital size,
  5. Having to ask permission for everyday activities such as going to the toilet, spending money or eating.
  6. Small penis humiliation, where scorn is addressed over the supposed inadequacy of the adult male’s genitals, or his inability to please a lover, and his penis becomes an object of derision.
  7. Forced repetition, such as being obliged to repeat back commands to confirm them.
  8. Forced flattery, such as agreeing that every decision that the dominant makes is wise, correct, and justifiable, while additionally praising the dominant’s physical and personality traits.
  9. Mockery, derision, and ridicule.

Getting comfortable in the role of humiliator may take time, but remember that clients who seek out this service are implicitly looking to form bonds of trust; Building a relationship with a humiliation seeking client can be a long-term arrangement that can be quite lucrative.

Get Sexy, Get Playful! Nylons, Pantyhose and Socks!

As I have written in earlier posts, once you start building up a clientele devoted to your foot fetish modeling, you will start getting specific requests and you might even seeing your clientele segmenting into high heel devotees vs. bare foot fanatics. Once you start making connections with your clientele, they will surely want to see you modeling nylons, pantyhose and socks.

pantyhose fetish modelingAs with bare foot modeling and high heel modeling, modeling your feet in pantyhose, nylons and socks requires learning a few basic moves and building confidence to branch out from there.

But first, let’s talk a little about hosiery style.

Of course you have the classic stockings, perfect of you want to create a harder, sexier look for yourself (pair black stockings with patent leather heels) or if you want to go retro, add garters. Use black stockings to go for Bettie Page, or use nude stockings and brightly colored shoes and try to go for a naughty June Cleaver look. Try out a punk look with fishnets and boots, or reimagine Madonna circa 1984 with bright green fishnets and white granny boots. Stockings are an utter blast!

Pantyhose modeling is a little different. Be prepared for your clients to ask to see your crotch. It is one of the biggest allure’s of the pantyhose fetish, perhaps rooted in some forgotten voyeuristic memory. When you are modeling pantyhose, be prepared to dress in a sophisticated style…a skirt and blouse, a suit. Have a role in mind…the sexy boss, the flirtatious secretary, the amorous librarian…let your imagination run wild!

Sock fetish modeling is on the opposite end of the spectrum. It definitely involves a younger vibe…think teenagers at a slumber party. Try fresh white or pink athletic socks right out of the package, or fun multi-coloured knee-highs. Your clients will certainly provide you with feedback and let you know their preferences!

So now that you have your hosiery in place, what are your clients going to want to see? The underlying attraction in pantyhose and nylons is the soft smooth feeling…the frictionless glide. Squeeze your knees together and rub your calves together…lean back and make a little bicycle kick with your feet. Rubbing your legs together will be what your clients want to see. Point your toes, wrinkle your sole, arch your sole, in nylons, you will feel so sexy!

Modeling in nylons and pantyhose is a natural enhancement to modeling in high heels, you will feel right at home combining the two. Modeling in socks however, should be treated like you are modeling in bare feet…very playful, very young.

Of course, when the right client is willing to pay, the rules can go out the window!

Femdom Fetish Modeling: Mistress Worship Introduction

Body worship is an integral facet to most femdom fetish fantasies, and the ability to control and direct your clientele in that area is key when pursuing femdom fetish modeling. But first, what is body worship and how does it figure into an online fetish model’s repertoire?

Body worship is any practice of physically reverencing a part of another person’s body, and is usually done as a submissive act in the context of BDSM. Typical kinds of body worship are muscle worship, foot worship, vagina worship, and ass worship. Body worship is popular among people of all sexual orientations and gender identities.

femdom mistress worship fetishUsually accompanied by prostration, re-enforcing a sense of inferiority, a “sub” generally licks, kisses and sucks their dominant’s body part, and is not allowed to touch it in a more conventional way.

Worshiping a body can also be done because the worshiper is in awe of the body part and wishes to praise that beauty. Although encouragement may be provided, body worship is typically received more or less passively, the worshipped party aloof.

So in order to affect body worship from your clientele in an online setting where there is no physical contact, you must work into a session where your clients are describing their worship of you, be it your ass, your feet, boots or shoes, or just about anything. Your clients should beg to see your ass, offer you tribute, describe how they would grovel and submit to you, you should remain passive and disinterested. Only after have they satisfied you (monetarily or through descriptive language) should you reward them with fleeting glimpses of whatever your client is worshipping.

You will probably find the one-on-one of a private chat session to be the most natural setting for femdom body worship, but as you become more experienced and command respect and obedience from a dedicated core of customers, you might be able to manage a femdom body worship fetish modeling session in a general public session.

Notes and tips:
Foot Worship and Boot Worship: If you have already been doing foot fetish modeling, this will seem very natural. Withhold your feet from your clients until they have satisfied your requirements for worship. “Tell me how you want to kiss my feet” or “Why are you worthy of my foot stepping on your face?” Encourage interaction and withhold reward. When you do reward your clients after you are satisfied, make it brief, and be sure to let them though they are lucky and you still don’t think they are worthy.

Ass Worship: if you are receiving requests from your fetish modeling clients for ass worshiping clients, dress for the occasion. Wear something that really flatters your figure, but withhold visual access. Remain seated, or turn your posterior away from the camera. Only after your clients have proved their desire and sufficiently prostrated themselves, should you indulge them.

Armpit worship, vagina worship, goddess worship, etc – as noted above, the key to fulfilling worshiping fantasies for your femdom fetish modeling clients is to dress in a way that is flattering, but not entirely revealing, act disinterested and aloof, set standards and requirements — monetary or otherwise, although if you only demand payment, you deprive your client of the ability to feel the humiliation and submission that is vital to the femdom body worship fantasy. Finally, when your client has earned a reward, indulge, but in a way that lets him know you are in control and you still don’t believe he is truly worthy of your greatness.

Foot Domination Fetish Modeling – An Overview

foot dominationFoot Domination is a good way to enter into Femdom fetish modeling. You can exercise your dominant persona, and if you are just starting out in this pursuit, it gives you a chance to work on a specific area of domination to build your confidence and win a loyal client base.

In online fetish erotica and pornography, foot domination generally refers to a dominant female figure (the “FemDom” or “Domme”) commanding obedience and subservience from a male or female submissive partner (the “sub”) in the form of foot worshipping, groveling, shoe and high heel kissing or licking; stepping or trampling on the sub’s body is also highly desired imagery. It is generally accompanied by derisive and demeaning language, strong verbal commands, scolding and specific instruction. To make foot domination work as a fetish webcam model working solo, you are going to have to focus on the verbal and psychological component.

So let’s assume you are in your webcam studio space, wherever you might have that set up. It’s important to be prepared for most foot domination femdom fetish scenarios: you don’t have to be clad head-to-toe in a latex catsuit and eight inch stiletto boots, but dress the part. If you feel more confident and in charge wearing high heels, by all means, wear a pair that shows attitude. If your client wants something else, you let him know that this is what you feel like wearing today, and if he wants you to change into something else, he will have to earn it.

Femdom foot domination fetish modeling will also require a much more verbal component. Don’t type your commands to your customers; speak them directly to the webcam. Issue commands and demand appropriate responses. “Tell me how much you would love to kiss my feet.” Indulge your customers’ fantasy by scolding them. “Your poor attitude and dirty mind deserves punishment. If you were here I would step on your face with my feet and make you lick the sole of my shoe.”

Online foot domination fetish modeling will require imagination. If you are just new to femdom role-playing, you will be challenged by becoming credibly dominant and convincing to your clientele; you will be doing solo and exclusively verbally and psychologically a fetish that is most commonly depicted in photos and videos by two participants in clearly defined domme and sub roles. It takes practice, but it can be done and the rewards for this type of fetish modeling can be lucrative.

Femdom Fetish Modeling – an Overview

When I talk to my friends who are pursuing careers as fetish models, a topic that keeps recurring is the advantages and pitfalls of femdom fetish modeling. “Femdom” is, as you may have guessed, common online slang for “Female Domination” and it can involve anything and everything from humiliation to forced feminization and bondage.

But one of the most common missteps for fetish models starting to pursue “Femdom” in webcam modeling is that it becomes an excuse to play dressup, rather than a genuine embrace of the fetish. Most of us have seen over-the-top dominatrix Halloween costumes or busty babes in leather corsets lashing huddled slaves with a bullwhip in movies or in pornography, and trying to emulate that visual effect without understanding the psychology or the personality behind femdom fetish will lead to frustration and ultimately unsatisfied clients.

A customer seeking to be dominated by a femdom fetish model will be able to tell if you are simply play-acting in a costume or if you are genuinely a girl with the right attitude. There will be a lot more information and practical advice in future posts on this subject, but the most important thing to take away from this if you are considering femdom fetish modeling is that successful femdom fetish models thrive because of what’s in their head, not just the clothes on their body.

So setting aside any thought of whipping a client’s backside or stepping on their unmentionables with your stiletto heel, let’s simply ask: Am I dominant? Can I be dominant?

Are you the girl who sets the agenda for your group of friends? Does your boyfriend go out of his way to please you? Do you easily take “no” for an answer? Or are you the one trying to please your friends, your parents, and your boyfriend? Do you find it hard to speak up when someone tells you something you don’t want to hear?

Starting to practice dominant behavior is as easy as setting standards when you are in a webcam modeling session. It doesn’t have to be anything like “Address me only as Empress Sexy Goddess my worthless slaves” but you can start be insisting that all requests must be accompanied by “please” or they will be ignored. You could insist that clients in your webcam chat area use proper spelling or proper sentence structure for reward or face punishment or expulsion. Think of it as baby steps as you are establishing your femdom persona in your pursuit of your fetish modeling career.