Femdom Fetish Modeling – an Overview

When I talk to my friends who are pursuing careers as fetish models, a topic that keeps recurring is the advantages and pitfalls of femdom fetish modeling. “Femdom” is, as you may have guessed, common online slang for “Female Domination” and it can involve anything and everything from humiliation to forced feminization and bondage.

But one of the most common missteps for fetish models starting to pursue “Femdom” in webcam modeling is that it becomes an excuse to play dressup, rather than a genuine embrace of the fetish. Most of us have seen over-the-top dominatrix Halloween costumes or busty babes in leather corsets lashing huddled slaves with a bullwhip in movies or in pornography, and trying to emulate that visual effect without understanding the psychology or the personality behind femdom fetish will lead to frustration and ultimately unsatisfied clients.

A customer seeking to be dominated by a femdom fetish model will be able to tell if you are simply play-acting in a costume or if you are genuinely a girl with the right attitude. There will be a lot more information and practical advice in future posts on this subject, but the most important thing to take away from this if you are considering femdom fetish modeling is that successful femdom fetish models thrive because of what’s in their head, not just the clothes on their body.

So setting aside any thought of whipping a client’s backside or stepping on their unmentionables with your stiletto heel, let’s simply ask: Am I dominant? Can I be dominant?

Are you the girl who sets the agenda for your group of friends? Does your boyfriend go out of his way to please you? Do you easily take “no” for an answer? Or are you the one trying to please your friends, your parents, and your boyfriend? Do you find it hard to speak up when someone tells you something you don’t want to hear?

Starting to practice dominant behavior is as easy as setting standards when you are in a webcam modeling session. It doesn’t have to be anything like “Address me only as Empress Sexy Goddess my worthless slaves” but you can start be insisting that all requests must be accompanied by “please” or they will be ignored. You could insist that clients in your webcam chat area use proper spelling or proper sentence structure for reward or face punishment or expulsion. Think of it as baby steps as you are establishing your femdom persona in your pursuit of your fetish modeling career.